"Why me?" This is a question I commonly asked as I sat in my bedroom late at night. In the beginning there were nights where I would just lay in bed crying, because it felt like it was the end of the world. My dad meant the world to me, but now I just feel betrayed by him. He would not stand up for me. I was told that I had destroyed this perfect family since I left my dads house. That was the first time I had ever seen him cry. This only made me feel guilty and it made me feel like such an awful person.
I was on a "Guilt Trip"
Psychology Today says, "guilt-provokers are often guilt-sufferers themselves." Therefore, my stepmom must have known that I was not the one who cause all of the catastrophe, but it was also of her wrong-doings.
Think About It:
- Do you know someone who tries to get their way or control you by making you feel guilty? Yes/No
- Do you know someone who makes you feel “less than” by constantly comparing you to others? Yes/No
- Do you know someone who acts like an angry victim? Yes/No
- Do you feel emotionally and/or physically drained after being with someone who is complaining or berating you? Yes/No
- Do you know someone who you are always trying to please but never seem to do things correctly? Yes/No
Looking back at it, I know I did not destroy that family. There were already so many underlying problems, and so much stress and anger. I did not deserve those guilt trips, and neither does anyone else.
Do you have a parent that tries to take you on a guilt trip? Comment and/or share your stories below!
I thought the image you used was really funny, and that the "Think About It" section of this post was very interactive for your audience.
ReplyDeleteI love how this post is interactive. I think this will really help members of your audience who are in similar situations evaluate what is best for them.
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